Menimbang Cinta Lama sebelum Bersemi Kembali

Sebagian orang mungkin pernah atau bahkan sedang merasakan yang namanya cinta lama bersemi kembali. Menjalin kembali hubungan yang sempat hilang dengan seseorang dari masa lalu, semakin umum terjadi belakangan ini. Apalagi dengan hadirnya situs jejaring sosial seperti Facebook, yang memudahkan kita menemukan seseorang setelah sekian lama berpisah.

Berkencan lagi dengan orang yang pernah dekat, memang terasa lebih nyaman dibandingkan harus mengenal lagi seseorang yang baru. Akan tetapi, semua itu juga tergantung seberapa lama Anda pernah berkencan, seberapa baik Anda mengenal satu sama lain, dan intensitas kisah percintaan di masa lalu. Tidak seperti hubungan yang baru, masalah lama bisa mencuat lagi ke permukaan. Jika perpisahan terdahulu disebabkan oleh perselingkuhan, seringkali sulit untuk menjalin kembali hubungan.

Meskipun demikian, sebuah studi yang dilakukan California State University, yang menyurvei lebih dari 1000 lelaki dan perempuan yang mencoba bereuni dengan mantan kekasihnya, menemukan bahwa 72 persen pasangan yang bersatu kembali setelah terpisah lebih dari lima tahun, masuk ke dalam hubungan jangka panjang dengan dua pertiganya melangkah hingga pernikahan atau pertunangan.



Jika Anda baru saja menyalakan kembali hubungan dengan kasih yang lama hilang, ikuti tips berikut ini agar tidak terjerumus kembali ke jurang yang sama untuk kali ke sekian:

Awal yang baru
Setelah menjalin kembali hubungan yang sempat terputus, jangan mulai menganalisa secara berlebihan kesalahan-kesalahan masa lalu atau alasan perpisahan. Jika kekasih mengkhianati Anda ketika berusia 17 tahun, misalnya, tidak berarti dia akan melakukan kesalahan yang sama setelah 10 tahun berselang.

Tidak peduli seperti apa situasi masa lalu, mulailah hubungan ini dengan awal yang baru, sama seperti ketika Anda menjalin hubungan baru.

Setiap orang berubah
Jangan berpikir Anda masih mengenal satu sama lain sama seperti ketika pertama kali bertemu. Segala sesuatu berubah, termasuk manusia. Pola kebiasaan seseorang berubah seiring berjalannya waktu, termasuk apa yang mereka suka dan benci. Meskipun apa yang Anda ingat tentang seseorang bisa tetap benar setelah 10 tahun, orang banyak berubah sepanjang hidupnya.

Singkirkan pikiran yang selama ini telah terbentuk tentang dirinya, dan nikmati momen meluangkan waktu kembali untuk mengenalnya.

The cover up
Sebelum mulai serius menjalani cinta lama yang bersemi kembali, pastikan Anda melakukannya untuk alasan yang tepat. Evaluasi situasi Anda saat ini dan tanyakan kepada diri sendiri alasan ingin kembali. Mungkin Anda baru saja mengalami perpisahan dari pacar sebelumnya, merasa kesepian atau ditinggalkan sehingga ingin mencari pelarian.

High fantasy fantasy vs Simplifie

Is it true that dreams can affect our behavior in dealing with this life? Could be the trigger of good-bad roads that we will we go, not wise-wise we will do when meeting a rock amid the street, tend to be careful there, hit-hit or play here for the sake of obtaining something .... Even what life would be like us in the present can be illustrated by knowing how we imagined it before.

Then dreams like what was best for delivering the best in life? High fancy or simple fantasy? Or we just apathetic, never mind we had a delusion if it turns out it makes it hard to yourself? So that there is a saying worthy of death would not hesitate to live or dead before their time. Actually this is not a situation that requires us to choose even in the beginning I was a lot of my writing this sentence displays a lot of questions. Because the notion that an attitude in my opinion. Can apply appropriate second life that will force out the negative energy within the chest cavity so that will give him much room for positive energy that will be a spark for someone in the spirit of routine early in the day and night and the wrong attitude will make the opposite makes a lot of CO2 inhalation and overcrowd the chest cavity.

If a fantasy that is the attitude, it's not high fantasy that makes our lives that we seem to be uncomfortable being rushed by anything or even black mengkambing level of difficulty when we are not satisfied with what we earn in a given time period. Not too simple fantasies that prevent us from achieving success. Because of high fantasy and a simple fantasy that only lives two equally contain a spirit, just different viewpoints output just how one wants the desired peak with street life and thinking.

There was my best friend long time ago and now continues to be my friend even was practically like sisters. He's the one that has a simple idea with simple dreams too but still have positive energy even with its limitations. For him the future could obtain a better life than the life her parents had given more than enough to make him feel successful and meaningful. Starting with a simple idea to have a small welding shop he decided to undertake training in BLK after graduating junior high school because the conscious decision to continue the higher is the burden for their parents and if enforced could just as well the highest level of school after high school and it will not necessarily could obtain the desired job.

Short stories from the capital of the certificate a few months he has been training in the region can apply for Small Industrial Environments my area. To move where the work of the project and others * I'm tired nyritain details * until finally my friend was able to open a small welding shops themselves. From small-time success finally now have some welding shops as well. It turned out that even with modest dreams of my friends were not only able to realize his hopes could obtain a better quality of life provided by their parents but much less successful at being a skipper.

More is happening now our heads filled with the delusion that high but unfortunately its out put instead of negative energy. Bye have a good job instead of corruption, want to get rich quickly hijacked by robbing people, desperate young wife polygamy tail nilep money people. But that does not mean high fantasy has always been synonymous with instant ways in which non-procedural tablets, not really. We will feel cool and comfortable under the shade of large trees in the daytime nan issued because the trees in the daytime is a positive energy that is O2. Conversely at night tree will remove the negative energy in the form of CO2. Just try it under a large tree at night, if not scary and frightening.

Both can be successful, we might fall into that category which is it? Are we successful because it has a simple idea or whether we are successful because they have high dreams? I'm sure my friends all successful bloggers, please share with me let me also might catch a success. Kok tail yes ... he not bad.

cintalah Rakyat Kita, Darah di Tubuh Bangsa

Rakyat ialah kita
jutaan tangan yang mengayun dalam kerja
di bumi di tanah tercinta
jutaan tangan mengayun bersama
membuka hutan-hutan lalang jadi ladang-ladang berbunga
mengepulkan asap dari cerobong pabrik-pabrik di kota
menaikkan layar menebar jala
meraba kelam di tambang logam dan batubara
Rakyat ialah tangan yang bekerja

Rakyat ialah kita
otak yang menapak sepanjang jemari angka-angka
yang selalu berkata dua adalah dua
yang bergerak di simpang siur garis niaga
rakyat ialah otak yang menulis angka-angka

Rakyat ialah kita
beragam suara di langit tanah tercinta
suara bangsi di rumah berjenjang bertangga
suara kecapi di pegunungan jelita
suara bonang mengambang di pendapa
suara kecak di muka pura
suara tifa di hutan kebun pala
Rakyat ialah suara beraneka

Rakyat ialah kita
puisi kaya makna di wajah semesta
di darat
hari yang berkeringat
gunung batu berwarna coklat
di laut
angin yang menyapu kabut
awan menyimpan topan
rakyat ialah puisi di wajah semesta

Rakyat ialah kita
darah di tubuh bangsa
debar sepanjang masa